We may have many different methods of getting the attention of others. Yet there is no guarantee that our bids for attention will create connection, and so we may also need to find ways to enjoy the process itself, without too much riding on the outcome. What do you already love about flirting well before anything comes from the flirting?
[image description: A nearby crouching heart with a quizzical facial expression watches a western parotia. The bird has the anthropomorphic thought, "You must learn to rest in your bids for attention." Text reads: "Western Parotia Meditation."]